Stop PLEASING start LIVING !
I have come to a realization that I can only write blogs if I feel strong enough about it. And this is one such topic I shall brood. If you ever ask what is the biggest mistake of our life? It’s “pleasing others” . From long time in order that a person can fit himself into the society and gain acceptance he pleases others even if it goes against his will. Mother told Harshada that she should be pursuing medical studies so that she can make her proud in front of all the relatives, when her only interest she felt was in mass communications. But, as a matter of fact her habit of saying “Yes” to everything came into picture. Only so that the relatives could be happy she drove himself against her passion and pursued medical side. What was to happen? She suffocated like her head was forced into a bucket of water. She managed to make her happy at the cost of herself. But, she never knew one day she will writhe in pain just as a fish suffocating on a terrestrial la...